{"id":18731,"date":"2018-07-12T00:01:38","date_gmt":"2018-07-12T04:01:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/?p=18731"},"modified":"2018-11-14T11:19:50","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T16:19:50","slug":"kindness-and-civility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/2018\/07\/kindness-and-civility\/","title":{"rendered":"Kindness and civility?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I wonder if the call for kindness in our profession in reaction to the Wilder Award change, and in the past, is related to the call for civility happening nationally. Both are often leveled at BIPOC, LGBTQIA, immigrants, or other vulnerable folks, and can feel like a call to&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-18733 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-650x185.jpg\" alt=\"sit down be quiet calm down\" width=\"640\" height=\"182\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-650x185.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-768x219.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-1754x500.jpg 1754w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sit-down-be-quiet-calm-down-160x46.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s listen to what <a href=\"https:\/\/theestablishment.co\/the-privilege-of-civilized-political-discourse-36e43026037b\">Ijeoma Oluo<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Ebonyteach?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor\">Ebony Elizabeth Thomas<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AmeliaNGibson\">Amelia N. Gibson<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DawnEQuigley\">Dr. Dawn Quigley<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/readitrealgood\">Alia Jones<\/a>, and countless other BIPOC are saying. For instance:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-18734 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-650x161.jpg\" alt=\"the stories any societies tells its childen have tremendous potential to shape how they behave as adults - debbie reese\" width=\"640\" height=\"159\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-650x161.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-300x75.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-768x191.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-1920x477.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/the-stories-any-societies-tells-its-childen-have-tremendous-potential-to-shape-how-they-behave-as-adults-debbie-reese-160x40.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The latest debate on the Laura Ingalls Wilder Award has brought up a lot of conversation online. What people are missing is that the conversation, and the way we have it, are actually connected to people&#8217;s physical and emotional safety &#8211; not specifically in the moments of conversations we are having, but in a culture that kills and oppresses BIPOC.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-18735 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-650x274.jpg\" alt=\"when we shift culture by changing an award (bye Laura!) or really practice listening (not tone policing and specifically white people)\" width=\"640\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-650x274.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-300x127.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-768x324.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-1184x500.jpg 1184w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/when-we-shift-culture-by-changing-an-award-bye-Laura-or-really-practice-listening-not-tone-policing-and-specifically-white-people-160x68.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-18736 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-650x257.jpg\" alt=\"we are actually creating a world safter for all of us. as children's lirbarians, we should care about everyone's safety.\" width=\"640\" height=\"253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-650x257.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-300x118.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-768x303.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-1266x500.jpg 1266w, https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/we-are-actually-creating-a-world-safter-for-all-of-us.-as-childrens-lirbarians-we-should-care-about-everyones-safety.-160x63.jpg 160w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Lisa Nowlain is the Youth Librarian at Madelyn Helling Library in Nevada City, CA. She is also an\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/lisanowlain.com\/\">artist type<\/a>. She&#8217;ll be on maternity leave from the ALSC blog starting in August, but will be back in January!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This post addresses the following ALSC Core Competencies:\u00a0V. Outreach and Advocacy and VII. Professionalism and Professional Development.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wonder if the call for kindness in our profession in reaction to the Wilder Award change, and in the past, is related to the call for civility happening nationally. Both are often leveled at BIPOC, LGBTQIA, immigrants, or other vulnerable folks, and can feel like a call to&#8230; Let&#8217;s listen to what Ijeoma Oluo, Ebony Elizabeth Thomas, Amelia N. Gibson, Dr. Dawn Quigley, Alia Jones, and countless other BIPOC are saying. For instance: The latest debate on the Laura Ingalls Wilder Award has brought up a lot of conversation online. What people are missing is that the conversation, and the way we have it, are actually connected to people&#8217;s physical and emotional safety &#8211; not specifically in the moments of conversations we are having, but in a culture that kills and oppresses BIPOC. Lisa Nowlain is the Youth Librarian at Madelyn Helling Library in Nevada City, CA. She is&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":220,"featured_media":18732,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":"","_members_access_role":[],"_members_access_error":""},"categories":[830,1604,1611,1613],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-18731","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blogger-lisa-nowlain","category-competencies-for-librarians-serving-children-in-public-libraries","category-outreach-and-advocacy","category-professionalism-and-professional-development"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18731","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/220"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18731"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18731\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/18732"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18731"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18731"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.alsc.ala.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18731"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}